In Place of Psychologist

If someone calls you in the middle of the night, when you are sound asleep and see the sweetest dreams your first reaction will be most likely to send a calling person to…some other place, at least. However, if the calling one is your friend who got into trouble and who desperately need your support, your duty is to discard the dreams and accept the role of psychologist.

Lot’s of people, me included, can hardly find any words of consolation when something bad has happened. However, thanks to some observations I understood that it is not required much from you to perform the role of a life buoy.

Is Milk Healthy? How to Choose Products

During all the times and epochs the question of the beautiful shape of feminine body has remained the up-to-date one. Another thing is that the standards of a woman’s beauty varied. Nowadays everybody lies the women who are in a good physical shape. But before you will torture yourself and keep to a masochistic diet stop and think for a bit.

If we have a brief look upon the history of a history of science and technology we will see that though the great progress has been done a lot of fallacies have been taking place for a long period of time. For example in the seventeenth century the substance containing mercury was supposed to treat deep wounds. For more than a hundred years the people thought that a plain fly has eight feet while it actually has six ones. The fallacies connected with food still remain existing in people’s minds. All the people have apparently the same bodies which turn out to work in a completely different ways.

I have doubts about feelings of my boyfriend

I’m in a pretty awkward situation. The point is that my boyfriend J. kept in touch with his friend L. whom he liked for a long period of time. The story is quite complicated indeed. We started dating a year ago. Everything was fine and it is still okay right now. But I do worry and actually I do not know why. He has known L. for seven years. They met when they entered the college. He liked her, she liked him. But it seems like she needed more than that. I mean she is quite demanding person. She needed more than he could provide her. We told about the situation and he shared his feelings and thoughts. At the time we were discussing it he tried to persuade me they were just friends. Well, I do not believe in friendship between a man and a woman. It doesn’t work at all. He liked her but once she decided to get married a guy who was well provided for. It was terrible indeed. I mean it seems like my boyfriend felt depressed about it as he described me. Well, I could understand him. Anyway he could change nothing. They kept in touch and pretended to be just friends even though he still liked her. He had to accept the situation as it was. I do not know some details but everything was okay for her. She got married and communicated with another guy who liked her and who was faithful friend. He was ready to help her and support every single time she needed it. What could be better…for her? At the time J. suffered pretty much. He couldn’t control the situation.

Is Initiative Punishable?

I was always wondering whether it is appropriate for a girl to take the initiative in relations. On the one hand, we are taught since childhood that a girl should not call first or invite a guy to a date or (the most awful of all awful things) to be the initiator of intercourse. So, we have to wait like modest princesses in the towers till our noble knights will wake us up for love with the help of a magical phone call. But personally I find this process of waiting extremely boring and do not want to spend time in vain.

Getting a Job

Dear Diary,

Today is the weird day. My bestie talked me into taking that job at the amusement park. I can’t say how bummed I was when she refused to take the job of a bartender; I was hoping we would work together there. You know, customers are very generous on tip when they are a little drunk. And it’s a resort city! The bar was right next to the pier and the view is amazing. But my friend looks at it differently: she says she doesn’t want to spend nights up making drinks for loud tourists who seem to never stop laughing and chatting.